It is possible to agree that everyone needs at least one friend
in their lives. Friends are people who support you, lend great
opportunities, and spend good and bad times along with you until the
very end. However, it is also possible where there is a gap in life
which makes you lack friends. Due to departures, friends can get
separated from you for their own reasons.
These days, though, the use of technology has improved and solved this main problem we have in the society. The communication between friends seems to become simpler with the use of social network sites and programs which allow users to chat or call to one another with just an internet connection. For some people, the matter that friends come and go is considered normal. However, the temporary lack of friends, or in some cases, the farewell between friends can become a big impact in life.
Dealing with Emotions
The mind serves as the main control of the entire human body. The brain controls human behaviors and emotions according to the influences from the environment. Therefore, if you are capable of controlling your emotions, you can as well control your perspectives.
Sadness, fear, and disappointment will result in negative thoughts and overflowing emotions in people who are not being able to control their feelings and emotions. When a friend has to leave for a college located far away from your neighborhood, don't let your sadness and the fear of loss stop them. Deal with your own personal emotions and let go for their own good. Slowly consider the reasons of their departure before letting your emotions guide how you feel and act. If a friend moves away for their own good, learn to be happy with them as you can always communicate with each other with the use of technology.
Enjoy Yourself
Being alone isn't a bad matter really. The ability to enjoy your own company makes you an independent person. Working alone, reading alone, and eating lunch alone can further make you into a responsible person as you are required to clean your own mess, do your own job, and finish your own deeds.
The efficiency of concentration upon a subject will also be improved when being alone. Just as a person sings solo live, you can as well do things as a solo. By doing things all by yourself and being capable of performing solo activities, higher opportunities may be granted.
Look at Yourself More
When your friends are no longer around, you have more time to groom and look clearly at yourself. Without friends, there are a few to none beings that are brave and trustworthy enough to tell you when your hair is flipped over or even when milk messes up your lips.
Their leave may have tapped your back a little, giving you a sign that improvement on self appearance and awareness is needed. Leaving to the bus station with your untied shoelaces may cause you to trip yourself over and that's a big embarrassment.
With more time alone, look at the mirror before you take your leave and check if everything is alright. Be more independent and confident when you know friends are gone. Learn to cope with your own problems and adapt to specific situations on your own. Once you are capable of doing so, you will be confident and happy all by yourself and even towards others who are around.
These days, though, the use of technology has improved and solved this main problem we have in the society. The communication between friends seems to become simpler with the use of social network sites and programs which allow users to chat or call to one another with just an internet connection. For some people, the matter that friends come and go is considered normal. However, the temporary lack of friends, or in some cases, the farewell between friends can become a big impact in life.
Dealing with Emotions
The mind serves as the main control of the entire human body. The brain controls human behaviors and emotions according to the influences from the environment. Therefore, if you are capable of controlling your emotions, you can as well control your perspectives.
Sadness, fear, and disappointment will result in negative thoughts and overflowing emotions in people who are not being able to control their feelings and emotions. When a friend has to leave for a college located far away from your neighborhood, don't let your sadness and the fear of loss stop them. Deal with your own personal emotions and let go for their own good. Slowly consider the reasons of their departure before letting your emotions guide how you feel and act. If a friend moves away for their own good, learn to be happy with them as you can always communicate with each other with the use of technology.
Enjoy Yourself
Being alone isn't a bad matter really. The ability to enjoy your own company makes you an independent person. Working alone, reading alone, and eating lunch alone can further make you into a responsible person as you are required to clean your own mess, do your own job, and finish your own deeds.
The efficiency of concentration upon a subject will also be improved when being alone. Just as a person sings solo live, you can as well do things as a solo. By doing things all by yourself and being capable of performing solo activities, higher opportunities may be granted.
Look at Yourself More
When your friends are no longer around, you have more time to groom and look clearly at yourself. Without friends, there are a few to none beings that are brave and trustworthy enough to tell you when your hair is flipped over or even when milk messes up your lips.
Their leave may have tapped your back a little, giving you a sign that improvement on self appearance and awareness is needed. Leaving to the bus station with your untied shoelaces may cause you to trip yourself over and that's a big embarrassment.
With more time alone, look at the mirror before you take your leave and check if everything is alright. Be more independent and confident when you know friends are gone. Learn to cope with your own problems and adapt to specific situations on your own. Once you are capable of doing so, you will be confident and happy all by yourself and even towards others who are around.
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