It would seem fair and accurate to say that a common 'quest' shared by
many would be how to find happiness in our daily lives. Authentic
happiness may be defined by different people in different ways but
ultimately it comes down to an inner peace we feel. It therefore stands
to reason that the key to happiness is finding that inner peace which
brings us to our discussion here today. What is it we can do to or how
is it we can act that will help bring happiness, or more of it, into our
lives?
Here are 5 simple techniques you can immediately use with
little effort that will help put 'pep in your step' and bring happiness
into your life.
Be Grateful
It is amazing how showing a
little gratitude can make your insides feel so warm and fuzzy. Besides
the fact that it feels nice to be nice these actions bring out the best
in others also. The result is they respond to you in the same fashion
and in the end this can bring happiness to everybody involved.
Also
by giving thanks it consciously makes you aware that others are acting
kindly towards you so you therefore appreciate it more.
Be Optimistic
If
you stop and consider how much influence each one of us has over our
own destiny there is no reason not to have hope. Possessing hope or
optimism gives you more energy and a certain sense of excitement about
the way things 'can' be. This helps to 'lighten' your mood and can bring
happiness to those around you.
Perform Random Acts of Kindness
Much
like giving thanks being helpful to others without expectations of
reward or reciprocation makes you feel good about yourself. The
resulting reactions you get from the people who you helped only serve to
make you feel even better.
Emphasize Your Strengths
So
you got some weaknesses, big deal, everybody does too. Learn to put more
emphasis on the strengths you posses whether it is a sense of humor
being a good listener or something else. Using your strengths gives you
more confidence and likely gets a better reaction from others both of
which tend to make you feel better about yourself.
Count Your Blessings
Look around you and see others that have various challenges such as physical,
financial or emotional in nature and appreciate what you have and who
you are. No matter what the situation may be there is ALWAYS somebody
who has it tougher than you! Life is only as bad as you 'perceive' it to
be.
With lifestyles that seem to be consumed by work and stress
it is no wonder that many question how to find happiness in their own
lives. Not the happiness you may experience when leaving work for the
day or perhaps a long weekend but true authentic happiness that stress
can NOT erase. These 5 techniques reviewed here today can quickly
establish that sense of 'well being' to help make you feel a more
'positive connection' with your own life. Stimulating this sense of
inner peace is the key to happiness and comes with giving thanks for
what it is we ALREADY have.