Where does confidence come from? Is it something that you are just born with or can we build confidence in time? Yes, some people just appear to have it. But as someone who had it, lost it completely, and had to build it all back from scratch, I'm going to point out that you can do some pretty interesting things with building some iron confidence in your life.
Perhaps you have none in your life right now, or perhaps you just need some more because you know exactly how much it would aid you with making decisions. But really, where does this sustainable confidence come from? There are these little things I love to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of long lasting confidence comes from the act of sweating the details, the little stuff, the things that most people often overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the tiny details down, and really knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You begin to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these positive habits into my life..what else am I really capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of life's magic. You see, when you actually nail the small stuff, the larger things become even more possible. It's when we try to go for the big goal without having the integrity of focusing on the tiny things that truly set us up for failing.
So sweat the tiny stuff. Really take the time to target the achievable measure of your life, and over the course of time start going for bigger goals. What if you fail? Take a gentle step back down and refocus on what you can achieve, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path towards success. In fact, the quantum leap is precisely what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of individuals become put off when they try something big in life and fail. Actually most people will try something 3 times and then give up completely. But if you build some heavy momentum, you will truly have the confidence to try something over and over till you get it correct.
Isn't that a much better way to live life?
Build some serious momentum behind you and you are capable of extraordinary things.
But first, you have to sweat the really small stuff.
Perhaps you have none in your life right now, or perhaps you just need some more because you know exactly how much it would aid you with making decisions. But really, where does this sustainable confidence come from? There are these little things I love to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of long lasting confidence comes from the act of sweating the details, the little stuff, the things that most people often overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the tiny details down, and really knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You begin to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these positive habits into my life..what else am I really capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of life's magic. You see, when you actually nail the small stuff, the larger things become even more possible. It's when we try to go for the big goal without having the integrity of focusing on the tiny things that truly set us up for failing.
So sweat the tiny stuff. Really take the time to target the achievable measure of your life, and over the course of time start going for bigger goals. What if you fail? Take a gentle step back down and refocus on what you can achieve, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path towards success. In fact, the quantum leap is precisely what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of individuals become put off when they try something big in life and fail. Actually most people will try something 3 times and then give up completely. But if you build some heavy momentum, you will truly have the confidence to try something over and over till you get it correct.
Isn't that a much better way to live life?
Build some serious momentum behind you and you are capable of extraordinary things.
But first, you have to sweat the really small stuff.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author and creator of The Words Of Encouragment, a website dedicated to encouraging others to achieve their dreams and live the best lives possible. So are you ready to start building some self confidence? If so, dive into these self confidence quotes.
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